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Case in point: When I do nothing to my profile and avoid the site for a few days, I can easily see that my profile gets returned in search results 150-400 times a day, on average.Spend about fifteen minutes on the site and update something in my profile however, gets me viewed well over 1500 times a day.My friend Matt was in a different place, yet just as frustrating.He rarely had anyone look at his profile, and on average received 2-5 messages or replies every six months.
Ignore your profile and just focus on trying to contact people or answer emails, and you'll quickly drop down in the search results.
So, you're on Ok Cupid (my favorite of all the top dating sites), however for whatever reason, you're struggling to meet someone cool/loving/close to your age/cute/who wants more than something casual/_______[fill in the blank].
I get it, because like you, I was in a similar boat with my own dating profile recently, and I also received many questions from readers and friends just like you with the same issues on an almost daily basis.
If you're like me, I had a fair number of folks contacting me with my old dating profile, however most were well outside my desired age range (15 years my senior), lived more than 1,000 miles away, or sought some form of open relationship.
While I'm superpeachykeeno with polyamory and the like, I've learned I'm wired for more monogamous leanings, so this was a source of frustration for both me and the people trying to catch my attention.
With the other tweaks I'll talk about in more detail in the next few sections of this article, I've consistently had my profile viewed in excess of 3000 times a day, while my friend Matt is now so swamped with date offers, he took his profile offline.