Dating someone who works all the time kitty katswell dating dudley puppy fanfiction
Dating, particularly in this day and age where most Millennials still live with their parents or have difficulty finding jobs, is hard.
Couple the initial dating difficulties with being a successful female with her career together and you have a recipe for potential disaster.
Someone who’s married to their job will convince themselves (and you) that they want and actually will make time for a relationship.
The problem: old habits are hard to break and for this person, seemingly impossible.
There's this idea that somehow dating while being unemployed means you're looking to be dependent on someone else, that you don't want to have to work and you're happy to let someone else handle things. How can two people connect when so much of their lives are fundamentally different?
After a month or maybe as long as three, hearing someone who’s married to their job consistently singing the same “Be patient” lyrics is a song that gets old.
A person who’s married to their job will cancel plans with you last minute and move “normal” dinner date times (/pm) to late date times (8/9pm) because they are stuck at work.
For her, the resentment that she has to hide her successes to make her partner feel better about himself.
And for him, it's the resentment of being less than; of having to rely on someone else.
To his face, she simply told him she was seeing someone else.