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A quick cold-read of their ethnic background works decently for me at getting replies. Instead I try to be a little sophisticated, then move it of OKC to facebook so they know I'm not going to murder them/text, and then meet up. In a seller's market like this it's best to let the ladies shop for you online. All the work he put in and the one that messaged him he girlfriended up. It's kinda hard when you're interests are programming, drinking and trolling forums.
Just gets things going in a more interesting way than "hey". I message girls that are clearly DTF by their answers but don't just go in there saying "yo piece of shit whore let me anal you" as they probably get that 10x a day.
Ultimately 90% of it comes down to what you look like. Just cuts the bullshit since all that matters most the time is your look. I'm black and the majority of the women on each site weren't. I try to pick out one incongruent detail and hope that she will emerge from her shell.
I will say this though, if it's a dating site that has in its messaging service a subject line, I like to put a cliff hanger in there as a way of practically guaranteeing she reads my message. One that ALWAYS ensured a reply back was "I hope you aren't racist". I guess they always replied so that they could validate themselves somewhat so that they don't feel guilty or racist if they didn't reply. I go back and forth on whether asking a question or making a statement is a better opener. Maybe there's a way to get the to respond to a first message, but I think they have a lot of anxiety about in general.
All the stuff to adjust is in the reddit link sourcecode posted above. Sadly hamburg doesn't have alot of girls in my age range.
But I'm heading to a small town in the mountains for a couple days so I won't have the script running in a groove.
Some respond well to cocky, edgy openers some see right through that and call you out. Drone- this is the hardest for me because these girls want to keep everything boring and their profiles give you nothing to work with.
Girl's who visit your profile are much more inclined to want to meet, because they clicked on you for a reason (i.e.
You're attractive, in their age range, and live near them). As others have mentioned, it really comes down to looks.
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I know this has been discussed on the ok cupid thread but that thread is vast and a summary on this specific question would be useful. A quick cold-read of their ethnic background works decently for me at getting replies. Recently I've been accusing them of looking like trouble. Wit plays well regardless, but fine-tuning your messages improve your response rate.
I just try to get their attention in the first message instead of writing a long winded specific message about something in their profile.